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society after marriage

From the blog: diary of a lawyer country

And then he says that one is thrown with the priests. The joke is not modeled exactly Giuliano Ferrara to Toto, and could not be otherwise. Prince De Curtis, in fact, never took too well with the Catholic world, as in his day Masonic matters, but especially marriage, were still being taken seriously. For this reason, the intolerance elephant fits very well to the case as I'm concerned.

The first review of my essay on divorce in Italy I received on the Christian Family. Nothing strange, given that the publisher is the same. Three pages with the title of the book - the Factory of divorces - even mentioned on the cover. The article began: "A book that will discuss a lot." When I read it, though I was sincerely grateful to the Editions Pauline, I was somewhat skeptical, because I was sure I would not find care outside of that narrow cultural circuit.

What has become the divorce today, secular society in no way want to argue. Indeed, even in the Catholic world is a palpable reluctance to repeat the question. Of course, there is still the heroic steadfastness of some bishops, especially those closest to Benedict XVI. There are also many priests who still manage to shine a glimmer of true Christian life, including the families of their communities. But in many other dioceses and parishes - possibly the majority - even seem pleased del fatto di “essersi attestati su nuove posizioni” , come recitavano i bollettini di guerra ai tempi dell’Eiar, per non fare capire che le nostre truppe erano state sopraffatte.

In effetti, può sembrare che oggi non abbia più senso continuare a parlare di divorzio, visto che è venuto meno il senso stesso del matrimonio. Forse faremmo meglio a interrogarci su come organizzare l’imminente società post-coniugale.
I più recenti dati Istat ci dicono che in Italia ci si sposa sempre meno, e i figli nati al di fuori di unioni regolari sono già attorno al 20% del totale. L’accelerazione del fenomeno è stata fortissima a partire dall’inizio del nuovo secolo, e projections tell us that in 2020 children born to unmarried parents may be one in two. In a short time, Italy could also catch up - so to speak - which still divides North from Europe or the United Kingdom, where there is already talk of 75% of births out of wedlock.

Even in our country, with some residual difference between north and south, has failed any sign of social differentiation between being married or not. Until two decades ago was still widely thought of children as the result of a life project that started with marriage. But then, since the nineties, they quickly reversed the terms.
first began to be already married when came the children, as if to crown the journey. But even at this stage has been left behind. The pageboy and bridesmaid at the wedding happy to assist mom and dad are now finding a vintage , such as bulky videotapes that there passed the image.
Today there is not even married, and children will remain at that rate of 1 population, 1%, the lowest in the world with that of Spain. If not reversed, even if you do not revolutionize the trend, the Italian people as such it is booting to an extinction that occurred in these terms even at the time of the barbarian invasions.

Moreover, in some ways it was foreseeable that it would end like this. Joseph Ratzinger (and then says that one is thrown with the priests) in some of his writings had planned well in advance. The Reformation in the sixteenth century, reintroduced the European legal divorce experience, not really intended to do is go back to the past, until the time of Jesus, when the repudiation was accepted by the Mosaic law as a remedy "to the hardness of the heart of 'man. " Instead, what has been introduced throughout the West over the past forty years, together with the sexual revolution, it was something essentially different, even comparable to the traditional idea of \u200b\u200bdivorce as a counter to extreme resolve family crises more severe.

The first modern example of no-fault divorce , no-fault divorce was introduced in California in 1970, under the governorship of Ronald Reagan. It was the first time ever, in a modern state, divorce became an individual right of each spouse, exercisable without even the need to guard the consent of the counterparty.
It 'true that, in the spirit of the time, should in particular be a right for women. In the new world she would be guaranteed the legal means to free themselves from dependence on male. Abortion was only the next step, so that the famous sentence Roe Vs Wade is 1973.

Just one look at the dates to see how false was the vulgate secularist on "delay civil" that our country had gone through in those years, because of the presence of the Vatican.
The law on divorce is also Fortune 1970, while the great reform of family law in 1975.
Among other things, it still provides that for legal separation, you must prove the facts that made "intolerable the continued cohabitation", or which might "seriously prejudicial to the education of children."

That is, separation and divorce, according to Italian law, they should still be a last resort in an otherwise irreconcilable marital crisis, and not individual rights.
However, from the beginning, in fact the courts have never pretended that they were declared the reasons for the crisis, settling for a generic statement - even unilaterally - the "incompatibility of character". Even today, this phrase does not mean anything is the basis of four out of five separations, divorces and three out of four.

The millennial institution of marriage has now become, within a couple of decades, a legal transaction without any value neither private nor public. A real unique case civil law, which otherwise stands still on the item for which the principle pacta sunt servanda . In reality, the promises of the wedding day - cohabitation, fidelity, commitment to raise children together - today no longer have any value, because no one can ask for another account. Ordinary people began to perceive it, and take steps accordingly.

So, what sense does it still linger to speak ill of the divorce itself? The reason is that, as no one openly say, forty years after the Fortuna law issue was not metabolized at all. It might seem the opposite, if you think that in the month of May a Milano si è persino tenuto il “Salone del Divorzio”, dove si organizzavano servizi vari per i single di ritorno, e si offrivano a prezzi stracciati esami fai-da-te per l’accertamento della paternità.
Ma si tratta solo della facciata mediatica, che fornisce copertura al sistema giudiziario. C’è bisogno di lubrificante per impedire che la macchina si inceppi, e con essa il suo fatturato multimilionario.

Nella realtà quotidiana, invece, dalla fabbrica divorzista continuano a sgorgare immensi oceani di sofferenza, disagio psicologico, malessere economico. In fondo, si tratta solo di una nuova applicazione della banalità del male di cui parlava Annah Arendt. Nella catena di montaggio del divorzio, così come avveniva in quella della shoah , ciascuno esegue il proprio compito obbedendo agli ordini ricevuti. Senza porsi il problema del significato e delle implicazioni di quello che fa.

Ogni anno, solo in Italia, i fatti di sangue direttamente connessi alle separazioni genitoriali sono centinaia. I morti sono più di cinquanta all’anno, con punte di oltre ottanta. E se andassimo a indagare anche sui suicidi, i numeri salirebbero vertiginosamente. E’ fuori discussione che i costi umani del divorzio siano molto più sanguinosi di quella prodotti dalla criminalità organizzata. E si tratta solo della punta dell’iceberg di un malessere sociale molto più radicato. The crisis
institution of marriage is generating depression, illness, poverty and collective, much wider than the world of law and communication are willing to admit.
Operators of these areas, in fact, still working on the basis of cultural coordinates of forty years ago. Yet see, that is, the divorce as a means of individual liberation, to oppose the authoritarian structure of the patriarchal family irreparably.
So much so that, as happened last May 10 when the crimes that happen to be two to divorce the same day, and hence the phenomenon requires the chronicles, the only hint of explanation that the media riescono a proporre è quella della ancestrale violenza del maschio, che non riesce a tollerare le nuove libertà femminili.

June Carbone, giurista americana, dieci anni fa scrisse giustamente che il diritto di famiglia si sarebbe sempre più evoluto nel senso from partners to parents . In tutto il mondo occidentale, allo Stato gliene sarebbe fregato sempre meno di come i cittadini si comportavano in coppia, ma si sarebbe sempre più interessato di come facevano i genitori. Previsione quanto mai azzeccata, viste le migliaia di perizie che oggi – solo in Italia – vengono stilate riguardo all’idoneità genitoriale di chi si separa in Tribunale.
I costi e le conseguenze di questo modus operandi are enormous, and contribute to collective impoverishment. Moreover, the system is fiercely discriminatory towards the figure and male role.

Beyond the politically correct propaganda, the war against the father seems to be true, persistent purpose of the whole system and its fundamental key Interpret.
"Women act like they have in front of an enemy to be destroyed ... not just the custody of the children, the true goal is to deny the partner as a father and husband," acknowledged Lia Cigarini historical feminist lawyer and then double Milan, in an interview 2004. From then to now, success in this direction has been growing, thanks to a compliant device that can benefit not only the effect on judicial staff, but also real special laws.

in Italy were the operators of Caritas (and then says that one is thrown with the priests) the first to notice the problem. Not expected, have found that is growing more and more the presence of fathers separated from those who frequent their public canteens and dormitories. It 'an invisible army of desperate people, that due to the allocation of the family home to his wife found themselves on the road within a month, and with salary more than halved.

The false allegations of child abuse and sexual abuse, then, have become a real bargain for those who did not scruple to use it. The criminologist Steffenoni Luke, in his recent essay "Presumed Guilty" (Chiarelettere) identified that only 17 percent of complaints of this kind turns into convictions, which, however, there is much to discuss. Four out of five complaints coming their former spouse or cohabitant. Some judges have begun to openly admit that most of these complaints is purely instrumental, and aimed to put the party in the civil cases for separation.

The effects of the persecution of his father, by the divorce system, have already exploded. They began to investigate them in the U.S. during the '80s. Americans, you know, like numbers and statistics, whereas we Europeans prefer to interpret the data. But the raw numbers collected by ' U.S. Department of Health and Human Services tell us that the father's absence from the household in which one has grown is a factor that occurs more than any other, compared to early school leaving, alcoholism and drug abuse, teenage pregnancy, depression, suicide, chronic unemployment, bringing the more serious crime situations.

Yet, despite the blood flowing, the collective impoverishment, the serious illness of subjects, the tide of marginalization, yet you can not raise the issue in terms of a real social emergency. And even to start a serious debate about the meaning that, even today, could have the institution of marriage.
Why, after all, the real reason why so many couples now divorced - and even more young people do not marry - is because they are encouraged to do so. The system favors them in every way.
lawyers are well aware that an increasing number of separations, especially among older couples, not born of a real breakthrough in their relationship, but motives and property tax. Used to enjoy the benefits not just enjoyed by singles, especially with respect to the tax, the property, or even social services reserved for so-called "lone parents".

We can say that the welfare state , for as we practiced in Italy in the last forty years, has been a powerful ally of the crisis of marriage. If the thirty Italians today do not marry, but not develop into a new challenge, maybe it's because they have too many fish to fry. Their parents have created for themselves a system that has left behind a prolific on their debt, and projected an even more frightening pension debt.
The generation today is enjoying sessantottino Pensions in respect of a fable, after having accumulated savings, investments and property, and for their children and grandchildren are a real mirage. Moreover, even without resorting to statistics, raise your hand if you now have less than forty years, and could never put up without being helped by his family.

On the other hand, big babies are the first generation that has come of age after having known the mass divorce of their parents. This, too, has likely played a decisive role, psychologically, than their current marriage strike .
So what to do? In the U.S., some federal states have started to think about answers, even in legal terms, introducing the possibility to choose the marriage covenant, with which we are committed even before the wedding not to divorce if not for objective reasons, and after the use of family mediation.

hypothesis still unthinkable in much of Europe. However, would be a big step forward if at least begin to get rid of stereotypes from the '70s, on which still govern the separation easier and extended families. Like the one for which the child would be less affected by a quick divorce "between civilized people", rather than the parents grow together in conflict, or no longer in love.
Today it is easier, especially for a mother, convinced that is their own personal happiness to be necessary for the children, rather than the reverse. But it is a childish delusion. Suffice, therefore, many times, that the operators involved are better informed about the dynamics of family crises, and those concerned know sometimes tell the truth. And maybe even some not.

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From: diary of a country lawyer

The dress will not make the Monaco, and even the priest, but certainly it is essential to qualify.
one look to tie Don Verzè or Don Sciortino, to understand that their obsessions have nothing to do with Catholic thought. It is now a general rule, men should also bear witness to Christ acting within outward, precluded from doing so at the same time they stop wearing the Roman collar. To understand this, it is not even necessary to cite cases so extreme and extravagant. Since the priests have abandoned the cassock, a look at the quality of their clothing is enough to sense the level of their thinking, even before the open mouth.

For example, the one who celebrated the Mass I attended last Sunday in a resort, wearing vestments too short. Under the hem of embroidered shirts, the horrible sprouting plastic sandals worn with socks. Miserably collapsed on top of both, also could see the bottom of a pair of gray pants too long. If it had not been decorated for saying Mass, he would have realized that this man was a priest only because of the sadness that emanated from those combinations so sloppy and incorrect.

In fact, after reading the Gospel, the celebrant began preaching without ever going beyond the limited expectations that emanate from his clothing. Chanted the words one by one, with a resigned tone of voice and monotone that sounded completely unnatural, as if he was using on purpose to show off humility. By the way, stop in the middle of a sentence, as if trying - unsuccessfully - to create a sense of anticipation in the audience. Although it does not read, his monotonous chant was so precise and that was the suspicion that the sermon had learned by heart.
feeling, I am reminded of a colleague who always told me not to pay the priests, not for what they were saying, but for the way they speak. He wondered if by chance - after the Council - in modern workshops were organized special courses to teach future pastors, instead of Latin, as expressed in such artifact.

At one point, without changing tone of voice, the celebrant came in the midst of his speech. The Gospel that he had recited just before the banquet at which he spoke to invite the poor, the lame and the blind. Thus, engaging in the reading, no longer young priest first started taking it with the French government (without ever naming him) to have ordered the expulsion of Roma irregular, and then went on to harshly criticize the Italian government for the issue of temporary school.

He also developed a truly original thesis, namely that the educational crisis of our young people in schools due to the fact that there would be enough teachers, and the blame is the government that refused to hire them. This to be honest I have not heard, and I have reported below, because at that point I had already risen so blatant, and I had already passed the entrance to the church, and then returned only after the prayer of the faithful. A way as any other, sadly proven too many times to make it clear that I had come to receive the Eucharist, not to hear a speech.

crouched by the door, strangely enough, there was a gypsy insisting alms to everyone who came to hear mass. I do not believe that, consistent with its views on the Sarkozy government, our celebrant - in addition to guarantee her a place to beg - he had regularly housed in the rectory along with children and relatives. But you have to understand: in fact, in the parables of the Gospel who offers banquet is always a king or a wealthy landowner, an image of the heavenly Father. Certainly not a normal padre di famiglia numerosa, una delle poche oggi rimaste, che deve ogni giorno farsi i suoi conti in tasca, per essere sicuro di poter sfamare quelli della sua casa. Insomma, voglio dire, anche i preti comizianti che vogliono prendere alla lettera le parabole devono pur sempre confrontarsi con le esigenze pratiche dell’economia domestica.

Ma a parte questo, l’inatteso comizietto mi ha lasciato addosso un inusuale senso di tristezza, che è durato ancora per qualche ora dopo la Messa. I sandali di plastica avevano fatto la loro parte, d’accordo, ma c’era qualcosa di più. Quel prete, in fondo, non aveva fatto altro che riprendere una vecchia solfa pauperista che, per fortuna, nelle parrocchie italiane sta diventando more and more feeble. On the pulpits of churches are starting to become prevalent that the priests were formed after the post-conciliar Burriana. Therefore, we must recognize that the majority of pastors today limits his forays into politics Sunday to so-called non-negotiable values. Defense of life, family, freedom of education.

E 'right, because these are the real emergency of our time. But sadness salt the same, to see how Catholic thought, which also could benefit from the inheritance of true giants of political thought, today in Italy - and more - is unable to go further.
seems that, compared to the major economic issues, social, political and more closely, particularly Italian Catholics and the clergy no longer have anything to say, and when the IEC attempts to deepen the technical aspects of the issues that affect them, the desire to send them all to work in the vineyard of the Lord's arms is even more devoted to the commentators.

The Church's social doctrine can still benefit of insights of great depth, rooted in the inheritance of scholastic philosophy: the ideal of the person, the concept of common good, the criterion of subsidiarity. But when it gets to the heart of political discourse, Catholics for over two centuries can not translate their enormous inheritance in a very original project. Must always go to borrow the ideas of others, or simply counter them.
The old Christian Democratic Party has lived for decades in the compromise with the Marxists, and therefore - despite the efforts of the PDL in order to present himself as a true European People's Party - in the Italian Catholic liberalism is still a relatively unknown subject.

not only for them to tell the truth, because liberal thought has never really rooted in our political culture. We have always prevailed more or less extreme ideals of solidarity. The Catholics then, not without some reason - having the matrix of our anti-clerical and Masonic revival - have always saw the incarnation of the liberal idea worst selfishness gospel.
Here, unlike in the Anglo-Saxon world, the great Catholic commentators of modernity as Tocqueville and Lord Acton have never done school.

All right, we must add that, in recent times, the statement of the League and the People of Freedom is returning justice to the creativity of Catholic authors, such as Rosmini, Gioberti and Cattaneo, who had been left on the margins of our first Masonic Renaissance, and then Gramscian hegemony and the advent of the "democratic Catholicism."
But it is still things that we can only repeat in the meetings of studies, certainly not the values \u200b\u200bthat have won people's hearts. Today, the thought "theocons" - the United States has a mass following and enjoys the almost exclusively Catholic thinkers - from us has not taken root. A political project like that of David Cameron on the "big society", even today, in Italy it would be difficult just to think about. Imagine, then, that it would be possible to involve ordinary citizens.

There is the presence of Catholics in political and social liberation to be close to Communion, which is closer to this model, and the results it gets are far from negligible. The impression, however, is that it is still in motion side, which respond only to themselves, and do not involve the whole body of Catholics in society.
The great mass of the faithful who attend Sunday services are still imprisoned by the discourses of the priests pauperistic badly dressed, or the sermons a bit 'whips and overindulgent the majority of parish priests. Hardly the interpreters of thought of the Italian bishops, which are also divided on the fundamental political choices, they can go beyond the requirements - however urgent priority - the so-called non-negotiable values.

on social and political Catholics still go to the trailer of a solidaristic now exhausted, and re-propose the old patterns. Yet, almost twenty years after disappearance of the Christian Democrat model, perhaps the time would be ripe to start the drive to find something more concrete, it can become a great project for Italy.
the laity must move first, of course, but must also move the hierarchy. Until the banks of the good press, the door of the parishes will continue to dominate certain magazines obsessed with Berlusconi, which also cares very little for the faithful, it is impossible to talk back to the original and authentic participation of Catholics in national political life.

Moreover, if the most vital movements Catholics, who are committed not only as volunteers but also in the business world and labor, will continue to be so self-referential, the situation will not change.
Episcopate must overcome its divisions and knows how to marry an original political project. A key idea for the Italian company that does not put more - as happened in the fifty-Democrat - as a continuous pursuit of secular ideologies of modernity, and even the best.

And then, it is urgent that the hierarchy ecclesastica learn to deal with the media with the authority and uniqueness that today require any political leader: useless argue that politics and its language are not included duties of the Church, because è comunque intollerabile il modo fazioso e superficiale con cui oggi il mondo della comunicazione stravolge sistematicamente le prese di posizione del Papa e dei Vescovi sui temi politici e sociali. Così come lo è la disinvoltura con cui esso attribuisce al mondo cattolico, se non addirittura alla Santa Sede, le esternazioni più o meno allucinate dei soliti due o tre porporati in cerca di pubblicità, per non parlare di quelle dei già citati pretazzi in giacca e cravatta.

I presupposti culturali e filosofici per un simile progetto non mancherebbero di certo. Basterebbe solo ritrovare unità, superare i vecchi schemi e ritornare alle fonti della dottrina sociale cattolica. Quel che non ha voluto fare la DC, e quello che (anche per colpa di quest'ultima) non è ancora riuscito a fare Berlusconi, e cioè radicare nel tessuto sociale del Paese quel partito liberale di massa che l'Italia non aveva mai avuto, potrebbero ancora farlo i Vescovi.
Se solo sapessero guardare oltre, e magari, tanto per cominciare, ci liberassero dai preti con i sandali di plastica.